The Power of Presence (Not Presents) A Holiday Reminder for Building Lasting Connections

Every Moment Happens Once

As the holiday season approaches, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of tasks, schedules, and responsibilities. For many, the holidays can bring a mix of nostalgia—fond memories of family gatherings and the stress of packed to-do lists. While both feelings are valid, it’s worth pausing to remember: Every moment happens once, never again. The power of presence can be elusive.

This phrase holds a deeper truth, especially during the holidays. Whether you’re working through the season or taking time off, being present for the moments that matter is essential—for yourself and those around you.

Living and Being in the Moment

Research underscores the importance of time spent with loved ones. A Harvard study on adult development, one of the longest-running studies of its kind, found that strong relationships are a key indicator of happiness and health. Whether it’s a holiday dinner or a quiet conversation by the fire, the memories you create with family and friends are investments in your emotional well-being.

For children, these moments are even more significant. Memories from holiday traditions—decorating cookies, unwrapping presents, or singing carols—become the stories they carry into adulthood. According to a study published in the Journal of Happiness Studies, engaging in shared family activities fosters stronger bonds and provides a sense of belonging, which contributes to long-term happiness.

As business professionals, we often think about building relationships in the context of networking and career growth. But the same principles apply to family and friends. Just as fostering trust and connection with an executive staffing firm can lead to transformative business outcomes, investing in personal relationships creates a foundation for joy and support.

Holiday Nostalgia is a Mixed Bag

Nostalgia during the holidays can be a double-edged sword. Some cherish the memories, while others feel overwhelmed by the pressure to recreate perfect moments. This is where being present becomes a powerful tool. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on soaking up the moments as they are—imperfect and fleeting.

For those working through the holidays, this doesn’t mean taking entire days off if that’s not feasible. It could mean being fully present during a 30-minute family meal, or making time for a quick holiday call with a loved one.

Building Memories: At Home and in Business

As executive recruiters, we often hear professionals reflect on their careers, sharing stories about the teams they’ve built and the relationships they’ve cultivated. Just like holiday memories, the partnerships you nurture with others—whether at work or home—define your legacy.

This season, challenge yourself to approach the holidays with the same mindset you bring to building a successful career: focus, intentionality, and connection. Remember, these moments are not only for you; they’re for the people who look up to you, count on you, and share in your experiences.

The Takeaway

While the holidays can be busy and stressful, they’re also an opportunity to create memories that last a lifetime. Whether you’re sharing a laugh with coworkers at an office party with a holiday workplace tradition or listening to a child excitedly talk about their wish list, each moment is a chance to connect.

As the picture says, “Every moment happens once, never again.” Let that serve as a reminder to slow down, be present, and embrace the nostalgia and joy that make this season special—for yourself and those around you.

At Artemis Consultants, we value relationships—in business and in life. This holiday season, we encourage you to take a moment to appreciate the people and memories that enrich your life, just as we strive to build connections that strengthen your business.

Happy Holidays!

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